My Princess Boy

Kilodavis, Cheryl (Author) and DeSimone, Suzanne (Illustrator). (2011). My Princess Boy: A Mom’s Story About a Young Boy Who Loves to Dress Up. New York, NY: Aladdin.

The title page of My Princess Boy includes a lovely thought: “As a community, we can accept and support our children for whomever they are and however they wish to look.” This book encourages families and communities to do just that, showing a loving family and group of friends playing and dancing with a gender-creative child.

A page of the book, with a picture of the Princess Boy dancing with his dad. The boy is wearing a pink dress and tiara and carrying a sceptre. Text reads "His dad tells my Princess Boy how pretty he looks in a dress. His dad holds his hand and tells him to twirl! My Princess Boy smiles and hugs his dad."

The Princess Boy dancing with his dad.

The art is interesting. Some people might find the featureless faces somewhat alarming, but I personally liked them; I think children can imagine themselves into the story more easily. I also liked that the Princess Boy and his family are Black. Unfortunately, it’s still rare to see families of color in picture books, and diversifying children’s books is important to enhancing children’s understanding of diversity and inclusivity.

The Princess Boy in this picture book has a wonderfully supportive family that plays with him and encourages him to play dress up how he likes. The story is narrated by his mother, and we are introduced to his dad and cool brother, as well as his friends. Although this child clearly has unconditional love from his family, there is mention of other children and adults making fun of him for wearing pretty dresses.

The mother asks the reader, “If you see a Princess Boy, will you laugh at him? Will you call him a name? Will you play with him? Will you like him for who he is?” I like this explicit call for tolerance, which makes this book an excellent choice not just for gender-creative children, but for all children and for parents as well.

About Charlie McNabb

Archivist, Folklorist, and Legend Tripper
This entry was posted in Fiction and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

One Response to My Princess Boy

  1. jerbearinsantafe says:

    Reblogged this on JerBear's Queer World News, Views & More From The City Different – Santa Fe, NM and commented:
    A book review of the classic children’s book that tells the story of a gender non-conforming boy…

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s